trisha01

Holiday Stress Relievers .... Dec. 12, 2011

by on ‎12-12-2011 02:37 AM

December 12, 2011

 

Holiday Stress Relievers

 

This time of year, brings stress to many folks, diabetes or not. Some folks can sail through the holidays, without any stress, whatsoever. Not all people can. Through the years, I've come up with several solutions to stress, be it year round or the holidays. Some of those solutions are below, and I hope that they will help you this year,and in the years following.

 

Take some time for yourself, even if just 15 minutes, each and every day. Enjoy a cup of coffee, or a cup of hot tea, during this time period. Let your thoughts be still for awhile.

 

Write a few thoughts about your day, or what you want to do, what you wish for, or even what may be troubling you, at that particular time. Keeping a journal, also lets you look back to previous times, and allows you to see where you have been, where you are now, and where you would like to be. Writing calms the soul and spirit.

 

If a lady, buy some lacy silk undergarments. Try a new fragrance of perfume.

 

If a gent, buy some silk boxer shorts. Try a new after shave or colonge.

 

Take time to sit with your partner, and just hold hands for awhile. Enjoy each other's company, without either of you saying anything.

 

Off and on through the day or evening, give extra hugs and smooches to your beloved.

 

Give the kids extra hugs, and have special moments with them as well.

 

Take a moment, to think of your other family members, and friends.

 

If you receive a blessing of some sort, think or say thank you. The universe listens quite well.

 

Make goals for the upcoming new year. Not resolutions.

 

Take one day and do some volunteer work. It could become a nice habit for you.

 

If you don't have a hobby for relaxation, think of something you might enjoy doing, for after the holidays are over.

 

Most of all, enjoy the time with family and friends. Be festive, be happy.

 

If no-one to spend the holiday with, go visit those in nursing homes. Some of those folks have no-one.

 

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

 

Trisha

About the Author
  • Hi there!, I am much more than my autoimmune diseases. I'm Mom to a daughter and son - both in their early 40's. Wife to my current husband for a long time. And Nana to three wonderful grandsons, one is 19 (and a PFC USMC), one is 17, and one is 9, and they are brothers. As you'll see in my signature, I was born with an autoimmune diabetic kidney disease (64 years ago). Then came Rubella at age 3. How about a little Rheumatic Fever thrown in - not once (age 7), but twice (age 22 or so). Rheumatic Fever is a systemic autoimmune disease -and in my case, is also an inherited one. Vitiligo (also autoimmune) at age 15, keeps my arms in small, lovely shades of no pigment. There have also been spells of adrenal issues through the years. My true love work wise, was specializing in Trauma Radiography, after earning my college degree of A.S. in Radiologic Technology. From the time I was 7, I knew I would work with x-ray stuff. I also tutored radiography students at the college level. Gave inservices to the radiography department(s); and conducted the monthly radiography tours to elementary school age children - using terms understood by those age groups. I was a member, during my working years, of my professional radiographic organizations. Since retiring from radiography, I've worked with wood, and have my own little woodshop biz at home. My volunteer efforts included for domestic violence shelters; nursing homes; and as a teenager, I was a candy striper, and earned that coveted cap after 1000 hours. :smileyhappy: My volunteer efforts now, are devoted to the ADA forums, helping other diabetics, and specifically on the Type 1 forum. I'm also a photographer, hand quilter when I can still see well enough to do tiny stitches, embroidery, crocheting, and learned to sew when I was 9. I loved tennis and bike riding. I also founded and published - three small community weekly and monthly newspapers (tabloid size), of which I was the only person to do all of the work, including layout and paste-up, along with writing the editorials, etc. Before I did my newspapers, twelve of my Letters to the Editor (one letter each month) of the area major newspapers, were published in three newspapers at the same time, of which one became (a 1/2 page in a full size newspaper) a Community Commentary section, on Domestic Abuse. Type 1 Diabetes is a part of my life, but it is not all of my life. ~ Trisha ~ IDDM (Type 1 autoimmune) 30 years